Specialties
One of my goals in working with you is to be the best fit therapist possible. One way to make sure this is the case, is assuring that I specialize in what you are looking for support in. These are areas that I have had additional training and experience in treating.
Marriage & Relationship Counseling
Betrayal Trauma Therapy
I offer betrayal trauma therapy via telehealth and in person for clients 18+ that live in the state of California. Betrayal trauma therapy is for partner’s of people who have been unfaithful in any way. Whether you decide to stay in the relationship or not, understanding the effect of betrayal trauma on yourself is an essential first step towards finding healing. I am specially trained in betrayal trauma by the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals and can help you with the full disclosure process if desired.
Infidelity Work
I work with couples and individuals who have experienced infidelity to support both crisis management and to learn how to have a flourishing relationship. As a couple, this often looks like building transparency in the relationship, creating consistency in how you show up for your partner, and learning the skills to talk to each other's self, instead of reacting from each other's reactions. This can be done in-person or via telehealth.
One of my favorite things to do as a therapist is work with couples who can't see a way forward on their own. I can help to identify what I call the "Pain Cycle" in your relationship and teach you the skills that you need to do it differently. I utilize a blend of the Gottman Method which provides great structure and Restoration Therapy which is all about finding peace in your relationship. Marriage therapy is effective both in-person and via telehealth.
Christian Therapy
For clients who want to integrate faith into their therapy services, I can offer biblically grounded and spiritually focused sessions. While I have a degree in Biblical and Theological Studies from Biola University, my theological beliefs can be summed up by "Love God & Love Others." I believe Jesus wants us to live shame-free lives and continually points back to loving relationships being the answer.
Pre-Marital Counseling
Utilizing a variety of curated and created resources, I provide a structured six session pre-marital therapy opportunity. This includes diving into topics such as childhood wounds and attachment styles, learning how to do conflict well, planning for the logistics of marriage, getting comfortable talking about sex, and being aligned in the pillars of your specific relationship. This can be done in-person or via telehealth.
Coming Soon - Prenatal, Postpartum, & Motherhood
I am so excited to announce that I have begun a training by Postpartum Support International to be able to provide highly skilled care to mothers of all stages. I specifically will be intertwining my knowledge of betrayal trauma with the specialized care for prenatal and postpartum women.
Formal Disclosure
I am experienced in leading couples and individuals through the Three-Part Formal Disclosure process that includes the formal disclosure statement, the emotional impact statement, and the restitution letter. This is often done when there has been betrayal, infidelity, sex addiction, and/or porn addiction. I can work closely alongside you to facilitate an effective and contained disclosure so you have the steps to move forward. I provide this support both in person and via telehealth.